That is the phrase I keep telling myself. I’m so concerned over what the future might bring. We are talking about moving in with my parents. The cost of in home care is unbelievable and I don’t know how long their money is going to last, I’d like to be able to at least save the house. I don’t know what the first steps should be.. It’s not fair to my husband yet it’s his idea. I think that the stress..tension.. crap is going to just be insane. I know if I live in this constant state of looking forward I’m missing what is happening in my right here and now. It’s difficult to slow down. It’s hard to enjoy life with no control or dreams. One day at a time I suppose.. that’s all I can do.